The Ultimate Spiritual Path of Not Giving a F**k
How to be free from suffering while also being a sensitive, loving, and empathic human...
“I used to dislike being sensitive as I thought it made me weak. But take away that single trait, and you take away the very essence of who I am.” ~ Caitlin Japa
Meandering through the vicissitudes of life as an emotionally sensitive person isn’t such an easy human task. When people get upset about something you said or did, you can feel as if your whole being is wrong for triggering them. The overly sensitive mind can also tend to over-worry about details and is perpetually trying to find ways to make the future 100% safe and secure.
As a young empath in the 90s, I found myself becoming energetically hard and cold in order to emotionally distance myself from the chaos of the world. If I didn’t do this, I would be constantly influenced by others’ internal dramas and feel super anxious causing me to incessantly bite my fingernails.
During the lockdown of 2020, it seemed like everyone was freaking out, and all of their stress caused me to suffer even more. Whenever I was triggered by others, I noticed one common theme in my internal dialog. My mind believed that they should be speaking, feeling, and behaving differently than how they were.
The mind can be very judgmental in moments and can think super black-and-white thoughts about life. It can believe that this is the right way things should be done and said (and definitely not the other way). This is because the mind truly believes it knows how to find the ultimate happiness and freedom.
Yet, every single time I followed my mind and became attached to its expectations, demands, or assumptions about anything, I rediscovered the magical formula for creating more suffering. Sometimes it really seemed like my mind was not paying any attention at all...
How to Balance Sensitivity and Detachment
In 1995, I was an empath who worked at a psychic hotline in Denver Colorado for 18 months and was dealing with intense over-sensitivity. I had to discover a way to find real happiness and freedom, no matter what was happening in my mind or the outside world. It took some time and exploration, yet eventually, I found the most powerful ancient spiritual path. This path allowed me to still be sensitive, empathic, and caring for others and their needs, while also feeling totally free from the world, my ego and its unending demands.
Whenever someone was triggered around me, I could take them in with full sensitivity and vulnerability, without getting lost in the unnecessary drama. In this new space, I found that I did not have to protect, defend, or guard my ego from anyone. I could effortlessly receive their potentially unfiltered words and insensitive irrational vibe without being destroyed.
I invite you to prepare yourself to embark on an awe-inspiring voyage of profound self-discovery! What awaits you below is beyond extraordinary. This is a spiritual expedition that reveals the ancient wisdom of "not giving a f**k" while warmly embracing the virtues of kindness, connection, and empathy.
Below I will be unveiling the carefully safeguarded techniques and secrets that have personally guided me along this remarkable, advanced ancient spiritual path to awakening. Brace yourself for an enthralling odyssey into instantaneous liberation! This is going to be an absorbing quest that pledges to unlock the keys to genuine tranquility in our tumultuous world.
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