Welcome to the grandest classroom you'll ever attend—your life! The all-knowing Universe serves as the headmaster, continually guiding you through the curriculum of your soul, sprinkling in pop quizzes and life-altering lessons when you least expect them.
You will not find a greater school than your life. The Universe is always teaching you exactly what you most need to learn about yourself. Nothing is a coincidence or an accident…ever! There are no mistakes, only lessons to learn. Your triggers show you precisely where you are not seeing love as the center of who or what you are.
You didn’t enroll in Earth School just to coast along, pay your tuition (aka bills), and sit quietly in the back of the class hoping to slide through unnoticed. You came here to wake up, which means learning how to celebrate every moment of the precious time you have here. This path of celebration is like how you’d feel at recess time. Remember? Here you’ll discover how the infinite source of freedom is still guiding you, ready to help you ace every lesson life throws your way.
"At the height of laughter, the universe is flung into a kaleidoscope of new possibilities." ~ Jean Houston
A while ago, I saw a bumper sticker on a car in Boulder Colorado that made me think...It said Life is the School and Love is the Lesson. That moment truly stuck with me. I wondered what is the lesson of love really about? I realized that a person can only learn this magnificent lesson of love from accepting one thing. This life is a spiritual mastery school and there is no escaping it. (click here for the actual bumper sticker)
As you know, our time here on Earth is very temporary. We are in this multi-dimensional, multi-learning facility to understand how to let go of fear and let in love. We can pass this grade with ease and graduate to the next level if we do one thing: make love the very center of our lives.
When you stop cramming for a future that hasn’t arrived, or revisiting old 'failed tests' from the past, you finally get to ace the 'present assignment' in front of you, passing each moment with flying colors. Then, you suddenly forget how you were wronged, how messed up you think you are, and stop trying so hard to fix these wounded aspects of your psyche.
When you give everything up, you create space for love to enter. Then, you start using every precious moment of life to see just how blessed you truly are and how amazing it is to be alive!
"Love is the bridge between you and everything." – Rumi
One of the best secrets I’ve found to passing the highest exams in this love mastery school is learning how to have a trusting, open heart all the time. When your heart remains open to trusting that Divine Intelligence is like the teacher behind the scenes, directing each act of this grand play, it feels safe to laugh, dance, and let love come pouring in like a final bell of freedom.
Whenever we forget this and close our hearts, it’s far more difficult to celebrate life and remember that this is all a school teaching us how to love. When we can consciously remember the real reason why we are here, we suddenly see how easy it is to learn the most important lesson we’re here to learn…love! How to live in the frequency of love 24 hours a day, by making love the center of your life.
The first chapter of your soul’s textbook is self-acceptance. This means validating, respecting, and appreciating the star student that you are! In my personal inner explorations, I found that unveiling this unlimited dimension of love within me is basically the same path as becoming Self-Realized. You cannot have one without the other. Anyone who says they are self-realized yet doesn’t have warm squishy cozy love pouring out of every atom in their body is simply pretending to be an actor on life’s enlightened stage.
Awakening the great God Source within you all begins with the most sincere surrender to feel that everything in the Universe is guided by the same source of love that you are, including every negative thought you have. Negativity and darkness are the toughest professors in this cosmic academy. They throw you into exams that push your limits, but they’re ultimately prepping you for graduation with honors in love mastery.
To pass the ultimate final exam of life, it’s about mastering the art of love, the key to answering every important question you’ll ever face. That when we cannot see love in all, we cannot see love at all. When we allow love to be the very center of our lives, we are trusting love to guide us through every experience, especially the ones we believe love is not present. We flow with the frequency of love just as we inhale and exhale the healing air we breathe.
"In the end, only three things matter: how much you loved, how gently you lived, and how gracefully you let go of things not meant for you." – Buddha
When you make love the absolute center of your life, whenever love is given back to you, you welcome the experience freely without feeling that you are desperately lacking in love or anything at all. You naturally live in a perpetual process of keeping your heart open. You’re effortlessly trusting life, no matter what happens.
With just a little willingness to let love be the center of your life, you will begin to feel more relaxed and open immediately. You can trust letting more love to come in. This willingness to let in love is a huge step for many people. You are trusting in the frequency and vibration of love, which is 5D consciousness. This means that you are truly committed to living beyond fear. In this freeing paradigm, you realize just how beautiful, childlike, and tremendously innocent you truly are.
“Trust makes you available to the ultimate; it makes truth available to you. Trust is a window to truth, yet great courage will be needed.” ~ Osho
This willingness to let in love, to trust in love, and make love the very reason for everything that you do, this is what makes you stop defending and protecting your ego from pain. When love is the #1 priority, you forget to be afraid. Instead, you are extending your energy out to loving others just because it feels good. You take more risks to create intimacy and connect with everyone in the world because you simply refuse to be afraid of anything.
“Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.” ~ 1 Corinthians 13
The amount of love we can let in is always going to be the clearest reflection of how much we can love ourselves. There is always going to be a more immature, insecure part that desperately wants to be loved. Yet, that part is also connected with the skeptical doubtful mindset who cannot believe you are the Source of Love itself. It wants to be loved and wanted by others, so it has every strategy in the book to get that love, rather than to just open the door and allow self-love to flood in.
You may have ten thousand reasons not to trust in life or love, yet it feels far worse to protect yourself from trusting in anyone your entire life than to take the risk to let in love. Blocking trust and love is like getting sent to detention. But the good news is that you’re always welcome back onto your honor role with a little bit of openness and trust.
When we stop the flow of trust and love through the heart, our spiritual path becomes stagnant or disconnected. This can quickly shift by relaxing deeper into your body, telling the mind to take a risk to trust in love, and remembering how good it feels to trust everyone again.
With deep relaxation happening in your body, you become more sensitive to what you most need to do, and where you most need to go. You will always feel guided by life, knowing which people and situations make life easier and more rewarding. You can navigate those tricky situations that lead to naturally feeling more open, honest, emotionally available, receptive to love, and feeling your soul’s direct connection to the God Source again.
"Let go of who you think you’re supposed to be; embrace who you are." – Brené Brown
I invite you to try a little experiment on yourself this week. Consider that your grand soul's purpose in life is to trust in every single experience you are having. Trust in every feeling, thought, belief, emotion, intuition, and each situation you’re a part of. Trust so fully and deeply that everything inside you relaxes completely. Just watch how your mind and ego tend to resist trust at first, yet in time, they slowly dissolve into it.
When your trust is absolute in the inner world, it will overflow into everyone in your outer world. Trust in yourself first; what is occurring within you is the right experience you’re learning the most from. Making trust bigger than the actual thought, judgment, or life experience is one of the quickest ways to find the God Source within you. Right now, tell yourself that it’s possible to trust in yourself 100% this week. Imagine you are doing this and embracing the divine being you truly are.
“The four pillars on which consciousness rests are love, compassion, forgiveness, and gratitude. Take away one, and the whole house crumbles.” ~ Alik Elzafon
Think of trust as your hall pass to the unconditionally loving God Source. It can open doors you never even knew existed! It’s not a tough job if you consider the other possible techniques others are using to try to reach God.
So I invite you, I challenge you, and I dare you to fully explore this experience of deep trust. Relax fully into it and let it spread throughout your life! Take on this trusting invitation first thing in the morning.
Imagine that it’s finally safe to let down your guard today, and walk around with a receptive, trusting heart, welcoming life with a big smile. Explore the sensations of being open, welcoming, and accepting of all beings, animals, plants, situations, experiences, and material things. Just try it for 24 hours, and let me know in the comments below what manifests for you!
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"In the depth of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer." – Albert Camus
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