10 Ways To Ignite the Spiritual Depth In Your Relationship
The Secrets to Creating a Deep Spiritual Connection in Your Partnership
Here’s an excerpt from my NEW Enlightened Relationships book that will be coming out sometime this year…
"Each moment of life brings you two alternatives: to be miserable or to be happy. It depends on your choice. Whatsoever you choose you become." ~ Osho
Whether you want to deepen your marriage, attract a mate, or just get along better with your boss, it always helps when you bring Spirit into your relationships. Many times we just get caught up in going through the motions of life and forget all about the all-powerful unconditionally loving spiritual beings we truly are.
Each time you bring your infinite spiritual nature into your connection, where you are speaking from and the way you’re relating with each other will take on a more gentle forgiving tone and feel. Yes, you can find deep fulfillment in all your interactions when your spiritual nature is present!
You can bring a deeper spiritual connection into any relationship you have where you’re drawing from an infinite power instead of from ego. Just apply one of these methods below for a few days and watch how much easier it is to get along with each other! Here are my top 10 Ways To Ignite Spiritual Depth In Your Relationships!
1. Listen… really listen. Practice getting your mind out of the way, and fully receive what the other person has to say. Receive the meaning of the message, without immediately jumping to your response. Listening helps you connect with people. Spirit loves to show up when people are connecting. So don’t try to do some kind of ‘active listening’ technique. When you’re concentrating on a technique, you’re not listening. Just receive their words into your body and feel where they are coming from as a way of feeling connected to them.
2. Practice Non-Judgment. We can never know how something ‘bad’ might serve the ultimate good for everyone in the long run. It is not up to us to decide whether a situation, event, or person is right or wrong, good or bad. This does not mean you cannot assess things in your relationships. You can assess whether someone is sincere, honest, trustworthy, etc. However, by saying this is good and that is bad, you’re creating more separation and less unity in your life.
You don’t have to assign a value judgment to anything or anyone. Everything just IS as it is. Let the Universe be wild, free, and mysterious. Whatever judgment you believe forms your reality, and limits your experience of life. It’s your call how free you are, and when you live a month free from any type of judgment, everyone will see and feel the spiritual glow around you.
3. Seek to Understand the Other First. Don’t worry about your point or perspective being understood first. When you drop your need to be heard or right about something, and get curious about understanding the other person, two things happen. First, you stop stressing yourself about what others think of you. Second, you show the other person that they are important to you.
When the other person sees that they are genuinely important to you, they will return the feeling. Not to mention, being able to have empathy and understand another person just feels good, and feeling empathic makes it easier to tap into the spiritual heart-felt element in any relationship.
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